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Dealing with Expectations

By: David Korn

Dealing with expectations can greatly help us with our emotional wellness. There are a lot of societal expectations throughout our life. Knowing how to deal with society’s expectations can help us to become freer individuals. We don’t always have to conform to society’s standards and knowing when to do so for respect is important.

Society often throws us with many questions. Being prepared to answer these questions honestly will help you to deal with expectations. Many times people won’t like your answer. It is best to realize that no matter what we do, we cannot make everyone happy all the time. Making your own decisions over what is expected of you shows that you have confidence.

Many people conform to societal expectations to become more popular. Popularity seems to be very important to a lot of people, especially when young. However, it is best to determine what is more important for you, whether conforming to these expectations or attaining your free will. Sometimes it is best to be popular amongst the few that truly care who you are versus being popular with many who don’t care as much.

It is ok and natural to conform to society’s expectations from time to time. Attending events, conversing, and so on are important reasons to conform to expectations. Many times this is to show respect and to make others happy. But, even still, if you have a good reason for an absence, clear communication will help. That way they can hopefully be more understanding of why you chose not to comply.

Communication is important when dealing with expectations. If the individual is having a hard time understanding your decision, communicating your needs and wants will give them an idea why. If they are still unhappy with your approach, at least you tried. It is better to exercise free will, in my opinion, than to follow everyone else’s wishes all the time. That way you are a free human being and can choose to do as you wish.